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Darthi, 2005-04-26 21:13:24
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If anyone has any questions regarding marrying a Turkish man, please feel free to ask me. I am an American and have a wonderful Turkish husband of two years. I'll be happy to give you good and honest advice, should you need it.

Darthi
Last Update : 8/3/2007 3:37:12 AM; Darthi
Last Update : 8/11/2007 12:43:19 PM; Darthi

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dawn_curuk, 2010-08-28 13:08:16
I am Happily Married to an Adana man 19 years and counting. Marry over there and take paper work to American embassy. As far as whether a family will accept you, people are all the same..some will and some won't. Time helps sometimes as do children. Mostly just be sincere. For the commuters, if it is straining the relationship, try to figure out how to cut down the distance, or maybe one of you will have to change your lifestyle to be in one place. Good marriages are all about compromise and working together.
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fisher, 2008-12-11 20:07:13
plz plz plz HELP!! ive been with my turkish boyfriend for 5 years now i travel back and forth back and forth we ae hoping to get married in 6 weeks am so confussed on what papers i need to take with me people tell me all different things and am so confussed i dont even no how ive found this site if u can help me and tell me what papers i need that wud br great i just dont want to get there and not have all that i need my email is fishergarry2008@hotmail.com thank u very much
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delyill, 2008-07-11 13:49:21
After the marriage , you gotto apply the embassy and they gonna want your papers etc. Then your husband gonna pass an interview for the visa but marrying in US is easier I think
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casey, 2008-07-09 20:29:04
Hi i am an american citizen who wants to marry a turkish man. I was wondering if anyone could tell me once we get married in turkey how do i go about bringing him back to the united states with me.
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drshaker1978, 2008-05-30 11:40:56
ok, it will be in the opposite direction
i am of turkish origin but with egyptian nationality and work in saudi arabia
i love a turkish girl ,i visited her one monthago and saw her parents
do u think she can withstand living in arabia
is it better that i move to turkey
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lippezarus, 2008-05-07 07:54:15
hi i have a turkish boyfrien but i need sum advice. i am devorced but i have a son but now i dont know if his family is going to accept me and my son.what can i do cuse he say his family will tell him to go and they will shut him out if they know about me so what can i do because i dont know how the turkish people work with their son having a girlfriend
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Demirci, 2007-11-14 23:28:15
Sienna, I really think it is very difficult to get married with someone from a different culture. I don't like to label any Turkish man by calling them strict or not strict. It depends on his education, his family, his city.... I don't want to demoralize you but it is much harder to be together with someone from a different culture. My daughter is married to an American guy. He is a sweet person but cultural differences is always there. I have a grandson. He can't speak Turkish well and he can't talk to my wife (grandmother). Why choose a harder path?!!! It depends on how much you love him I guess.
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sienna, 2007-11-07 09:23:40
hey, iam 23 and i have a 25 year old turkish boyfriend. we are both based in Doha, Qatar. He works as an architect and i work for an airline.
I just wanna ask help regarding turkish guys. I dont go out, i dont go to bars, i have been here for 1 whole year and i havent been inside a bar partying, i dont have guy friends, olny my turkish boyfriend and his bestfriend. My boyfriend he likes me because of that. He doesnt want me to post any photos of myself in the internet, he deleted my online communicaty webiste account cos he said many guys will see my picture..and in my messenger, he doesnt want me to post my pic. I wana ask if Turkish guys are really this kinda strict. I wanna learn more about his character. I like him alot, even if hes strict, hes very very very sweet and when were together he is like a baby, outside his personality is so strong youll be blown away, many people hates his arrogance and all but when were together, he acts like a baby, so different form his personality in front of many people.If he says something i really have to follow. just reacently we had a fight, we are discussing regarding our culture. I am born in Manila, i am a bit conservative. I know culture differences are the hardest part but we are mighty keeping up. We love each other alot.

Are they really really strict? Tell me please, tell me more what to expect from them..

Thank you very much.
Hoping for some quick reply..

Love and Light.
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Demirci, 2007-10-23 12:52:12
Don't get married
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kman, 2007-10-10 11:07:52
Dear princessjane.. I would say leave him and run now.. it sounds like he is coming from a very conservative/traditional family and he is still on their tight leash. None of this makes him a bad person, but knowing the differences in the respective cultures (though not knowing you!), I can say that you will have long term "cultural" problems at a bare minimum. However, if you are into embracing major cultural differences, then listen to your heart and make a decision.
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